Stardew Valley: How The Friendship Point System Works

This Stardew Valley guide explains how to maximize friendship with villagers. Building relationships is crucial, impacting gameplay and unlocking events. While conversation and gifting are key, not all interactions are equal.

The Heart System:

The in-game heart meter shows friendship levels (250 points = 1 heart). Reaching certain heart levels unlocks events and dialogue.

Friendship Point Gain:

• Talking: +20 points (or +10 if the villager is busy). Not talking daily results in a friendship decrease (-2 points, -10 with a bouquet given, -20 for spouse).
• Bulletin Board Deliveries: +150 points with the recipient.
• Friendship 101 Book: A permanent 10% boost to friendship gains (available from the Prize Machine or the Bookseller).

Gifting:

Gift preferences vary, but point values are consistent:

• Loved: +80 points
• Liked: +45 points
• Neutral: +20 points
• Disliked: -20 points
• Hated: -40 points

Birthday and Feast of the Winter Star gifts multiply these values (x8 and x5 respectively).

Stardrop Tea:

This universally loved gift grants +250 points (1 heart), tripled on birthdays and the Feast of the Winter Star. Sources include the Prize Machine, Golden Fishing Chests, the Helper's Bundle, and raccoon requests.

Movie Theater:

Inviting villagers to the movies (using a Movie Ticket) yields points based on movie and snack choices:

• Loved Movie: +200 points
• Liked Movie: +100 points
• Disliked Movie: 0 points
• Loved Concession: +50 points
• Liked Concession: +25 points
• Disliked Concession: 0 points

Conversations & Dialogue:

Dialogue choices influence friendship (+10 to +50 points or a decrease). Heart Events can significantly impact friendship (+/- 200 points).

Festivals & Events:

• Flower Dance: +1 heart (250 points) for dancing (requires 4 hearts or more).
• Luau: Soup contributions affect friendship (+120 to -100 points).
• Community Center (Bulletin Board Bundles): Completing all bundles rewards +500 points (2 hearts) with each non-dateable villager.

By strategically utilizing these methods, players can cultivate strong friendships throughout Pelican Town.